Thursday, 27 August 2015

24 Hours in the Philippines

We have just returned to the Peace Boat from a day in the Philippines. No doubt the longest 24 hours of my life and a rollercoaster of emotions.

We embarked off the ship onto buses that would take us to a local college for 16-21 year olds in the Talisay area of Cebu. I wasn't quite expecting to see masses of slums and polluted waters within seconds of leaving the docks and this was a continuous part of the view for nearly all of our stay.

Once we arrived at the college we received a celebrity welcome from hundreds upon hundreds of pupils and teachers. Every young Filipino wearing wide smiles and taking any opportunity to say hello, shake hands or high five. All this while the Village People blasted out and the obvious moves to accompany it. As soon as we settled I had to pull down my sunglasses to cover up the emotion trying to take it all in. Although internet access is minimal to us, I'm sure the Change Agents you know will soon be uploading their versions of events at this moment and I think it too will be overwhelming.


Anyway, after a few obligatory speeches, impressive dances and singing from the College we broke up into our groups and headed to our classrooms to engage with the young people and learn from each other. And that we certainly did. My personal group were energetic and keen to hear our introductions which included a few laughs where the slight language or accent barriers arose. We then went on to invite the young people what the YMCA was to them before we filled in the few gaps in what we believe our movement represents. The meat and bone of the exercise was for the group to discuss issues of social injustice that are current in the Philippines and the response raised several issues as expected. Finally we asked the group to note what changes they would like to see in the future of the Country and a personal favourite from my small group came from 16 year old Lorena who wrote "As we can see today there are lots of people who suffer from poverty. In my opinion we can help them to have a better life by not just giving them food but also love and respect even though we may have different situations". Going through the notes now this is only one example of fantastic input received.

After a bazillion cumulative selfies with every possible combination of pupil/CA we headed off to the City Hall for an official welcome. The City Hall was nice but not over extravagant compared to what you've seen in major cities, but when you knew around the corner there were families living under corrugated metal sheets it certainly did feel unjust. Another enjoyable two hours of talks and performances and we were heading to our accommodation for the night at Cebu YMCA.


Unless you've stayed in a YMCA you'll never know what to expect until you do and this differs from every Country. This YMCA was welcoming however for some of the team who didn't expect 2 inch mattresses, no Wi-Fi, ten beds in a room and the odd cockroach in the toilet may have not had the greatest of stays! This was slightly helped by a McDonald's five minutes up the road and surely enough once baggage was dropped we packed out the joint. Maybe "the amount of chicken nuggets consumed in one hour" can be the next YMCA World Challenge?!

We were located quite close to the built up city centre so the slums were no more, what awaited us was worse. Many groups of us went for a further stroll and what we seen will stay with me forever or at least until poverty is fully eradicated. Dozens of homeless people aligned the street sprawled out on cardboard bedding, and especially a girl of probably three years old sleeping, alone and shoeless in the middle of the pavement caught the attention of everyone, and not just for that moment. It was the first thing I brought up with my girlfriend shortly after via phone which was the first time we have spoke in 8 days. The sadness, then fun, then utter disbelief of the days events resulted in a solemn evening and suddenly our accommodation was perfectly suitable.

As I have done most mornings on the programme I woke up around 5am and seen the sun rise. Today though I was really looking forward to the planned feeding of the homeless children, some of whom we would have seen the night before. By 7am the forecourt was full of 80 or so young people. Nine renditions (yes... NINE) of the YMCA song to entertain the children and wake up the sleepy heads amongst our group followed before the children were finally invited to come up for food served by the awesome team of YMCA Cebu volunteers and fellow Change Agents. They were served a healthy serving of porridge accompanied by a sausage, bread roll and piece of fruit. There wasn't any waste. Interestingly we discovered that this project only costs about £40 a day to feed 100 people. It was great to hear so many people saying they will be getting on to their local and national movements involved to support this and similar causes.


We went to breakfast separately, which I usually would raise an issue with but at this time the young people were enjoying free swimming lessons also provided by the YMCA, before heading back out of town for some alternative tourism which consisted of a group of people who are turning un-recyclable waste such as crisp packets and rice bags into colourful, sustainable handbags, purses and pencil cases. Photos to follow.

Before boarding the boat we visited an enormous shopping mall (again only a stone's throw away from poverty) and lunch. I'm sat gazing at the sea while joking to Stuart from Dumfries YMCA that we've probably done more in 24 hours than even Jack Bauer can manage.

What an experience.

N.b. I've been asked by a few other Change Agents from England and Wales to tell you that they will be posting when back home. I'm currently £30 into internet usage on board so hope you can understand their difficulty in accessing the blog and I'm sure their experiences will be well worth the wait.

Wednesday, 26 August 2015

Life on board the Ocean Dream

You all wait months for my blog post and here I am throwing another one out a day later. Life on board the "Ocean Dream Peace Boat" remains pretty much the same, although I'm glad to report I've discovered fried chicken and chips at one of the bars rather than the alternative menus - which today consisted partly of jellied pig ears... delish!



Shortly after I posted yesterday the Change Agents joined one of the many separate Peace Boat events. It focused on a major although somewhat covered up issue called Hikikomori. This is a situation pretty much only applicable in Japan, where young people shut themselves away in their bedrooms for years maybe decades, with no physical interaction with family, friends or school with many never recovering and leading to suicide or starvation. Shame is a huge focus point in Japan and the families of these people incredibly allow it to happen, and do not seek help as this would bring shame to the family. It was difficult to take in at the time and even now cannot fully understand how this goes on.

Staying with this, Danielle a fellow English Change Agent and I somehow got talking to the owner of the boat last night in the karaoke bar and the next thing we knew, we had scheduled a meeting later the next day, feeling rather privileged. True to his word we sat down with _____ in the afternoon to discuss Hikikomori in more detail and other problems facing young people in Japan, most of which have historically have been given hardly any coverage until now. He was immensely proud that the Peace Boat works as a good tool to get young people to escape from Hikikomori but problems also facing young people and society do not end there. 

A fact I find hard to accept (and if internet resources were available would certainly double check) was that the suicide rate in Japan can rise to 20% of the population. Imagine one in 5 people you know taking their own life. Again bringing shame on one's self or family is the reasoning behind it, with something like bankruptcy or homelessness a common example, as they see this as repayment for their errors. It's certainly something I will look in to further once home.

The ship arrives at the Philippines tomorrow afternoon and we have a busy programme planned as expected. We start by introducing the YMCA to over 500 university students in Cebu before meeting the mayor and staying the evening in Cebu YMCA. By 6:30am on Friday we will be on our way to help serve breakfast to homeless and vulnerable members of the Filipino society. Whilst this is something I am used to in my role of employment, I haven't got a clue how I will take seeing so many young people in these situations that we're told to expect. I hope that I can keep it together and genuinely look forward to meeting the worst off in the Philippines. For YMCA movements - mostly outside of the UK - who don't do a great deal of work with vulnerable people I hope it will encourage them to engage more in this line of aid and support.

I hope to report back when we return to the Peace Boat on Thursday... our time!

Chris

Monday, 24 August 2015

From Newport to Yokohama

It's been a long 5 days on the "Ocean Dream" Peace Boat, where I am together with another 150 people from 60 countries. After 22 hours leaving Newport in South Wales to the cruise ship via Heathrow, Vienna, Tokyo and Yokohama we're now in day 4 just about to start proceedings. (I'm actually in Devotions which is rather rare for me, although not participating I am certainly enjoying the interactive performances and song).

Life on board is good even if the cuisine takes some adapting to. While pushing boundaries of what I'm used to, raw fish is still vacant from my diet. 

To the delight of many of my Facebook friends I'm sure, internet access is expensive and patchy at best so the usual 20 updates a day are absent but it's not due to the lack of activity and enjoyment. My environment has been the same for days. Blue sky and blue sea. I'm still not fed up of it by any means.

I'm living with Gareth from England and Simon from Denmark who I first met in Estonia in May. I've already made good friends with the other Brits including some compatriots Carlie and Ashleigh from Swansea. What has surprised me is how many other friends I have made with little effort. It is common on board to say hello to whoever you pass in the corridor and mealtimes are always with new people, including the 600 non-YMCA residents.




The programme (the important bit I guess) is now in full swing. After being introduced by Johan Vihelm Eltvik the CEO of the World YMCA and brief details of what to expect from the week we went straight into our group meetings to discuss how empowerment (and dis-empowerment) affects our own communities and what the YMCA is doing to tackle issues. With the group consisting of participants from Senegal, New Zealand, Russia, Denmark, South Africa, Italy, Jordan, Japan and Australia you can imagine the diversity of problems facing young people around the World. While my YMCA aims to tackle inclusiveness into society, the movement in Cape Town tackles young people who can - and do - so easily get caught up in drugs and gun crime.

A useful talk on facilitation followed, which I contributed well, joking that I probably said more than the presenter. Yesterday we looked in detail at the World YMCA strategy and discussed in groups how we are going to present the YMCA to 500 Filipino students once we reach shore. Our group has some simple group exercises but I believe others are doing shows and a play which should be educational and if not at least entertaining! 

We're about to start a session on leadership, where I hope I can learn new ideas and thinking that can support me personally and my YMCA. 

I'll hopefully be back in touch in a few days, after our session in The Philippines.

Saturday, 22 August 2015

Winding down after Poland

"Don't cry because it's over; smile because it happened."

-- Dr Seuss 

It's all over. I'm surrounded by a mountain of luggage, laundry and a load of duty free, having stumbled through the door of my home back in England. It was a fairly easy trip, nothing to report and I am looking forward to some much needed sleep.

There aren't words to describe how much of an amazing experience I had in Poland. Following the presentations, people took to the great outdoors, participating in social outreach, worship and Ultimate Frisbee, not to mention the absolute plethora of dancing sessions. I never thought I'd dance and even now I am propelled into a state of disbelief at the idea, but I've somehow learned three in the space of a week. My feet are on fire.



Having said that, I am inspired.

It goes to show God does powerful things and is an advocate of change. Bringing people together is the crux of it, but the whole point of this trial is to prove that no worship is confined just to hymns and fanciful buildings. Young people can lead in new, innovative and creative ways, sharing lives, life skills, stories.

What can I say? I'm just excited to expand the movement, doing my bit to try and promote #youthUNIFY as well as God and the incredible people that are behind it.


I'm going to miss this quirky bunch, but the future is feeling bright.

Wednesday, 19 August 2015

YMCA community :)

This has been my third trip overseas with the YMCA in the four years that I've been working with YMCA white rose in Yorkshire - and the first time that my wife has joined me half way through. Mainly, I suspect, because we weren't married on my previous two trips otherwise she'd flown out to join me then as well.

One thing I love about working for the ymca, and the opportunity we have to go on trips such as Unify, is the family feel to it. The sense of community. The sense of doing life together. 

As a natural introvert I sometimes get overwhelmed by the busyness and the fact that you have to put on a social happy face all the time...or so you think. Sometimes I just need to retreat to my room and have 5 by myself.

Today, I've been able to play tourist with my wife whilst the rest of the delegates have blessed the local community in different ways. Some have led a sports outreach in Lublin town centre; others have made a ymca banner for the venue we've been staying at; others have been at a orphanage or a old peoples home, whilst others have been to a Nazi Concentration Camp from World War II to give flowers and bible verses to those visiting the centre. 

In the midst of it all, Gods been in it. Part of me has wanted to join in with the conference - but sometimes, the Godly thing to do is to spend the day with your family - whether that be your wife, your parents, your siblings, your grandparents or aunts and uncles and cousins etc. Its great being a part of the YMCA family - and it's great being able to include your biological family in that as well. 

If you've never been to visit another ymca, I'd encourage you to go and do so. It needn't be a ymca overseas - there's plenty of great YMCAs in the UK, and the chances are that there's a couple within a hours drive of where you live. Google them. Invite yourself to go and visit them and find out what they do. Build friendships with their staff. Invite them to come and visit your ymca and find out what you do. If you're struggling to find a ymca to go and visit them come and visit us at ymca white rose in Yorkshire - my email address is Jonathan.buckley@ymcawhiterose.org.uk. 

Or, if you wanna meet 15-20 YMCAs in one day, come and join us at the UK unify residential next month at regents college, Malvern. Day and residential tickets are available - it'd be great to see you - Google 'Unify YMCA' and you won't go wrong :)

God bless

Jon buckley

Monday, 17 August 2015

Dancing and presentations

"You gotta dance like there's nobody watching."

-- William Purken

I've just come back from the presentations of all countries here - two hours of pure insight into the ins and outs of every YMCA and a little bit of the culture to top it off. It's been an experience with a few of our own taking to the microphone.

England, Scotland, Ukraine, Russia, Columbia, Germany, Belarus, the USA and plenty more added to the mix.

Speaking of culture, we've been learning how to dance.

As a Brit, the two left feet let us down, but our hosts managed to make salsa and ceildh dancers out of us.

Hope for us yet.

God bless!